First
of all, I’m sorry for not being around much lately, but there’s something
about being the parent of a soldier that makes you feel really helpless when
something happens. As many who read this blog know, my son Tim was deployed to
Afghanistan this past August. He’s serving his country in one of the most
dangerous areas of one of the most dangerous countries in the world, just so he
can better afford to go to college. But
that’s another column for another day.
About
a week ago, my son and the others he serves with were scouting for IEDs, and
one of them went off, a little too close, and he was thrown back. From the way
he describes his symptoms, he’s definitely suffered a concussion, but it’s difficult
to tell if it might be worse than that. Tim has this tendency to “not want to
worry me,” and still hasn’t figured out that it’s not what he tells me that worries me, but what he doesn’t tell me.
So,
for the last week, I’ve been trying to go through channels to speak to a
doctor, and talking to him via instant message and email as much as possible,
trying to gain any information I can. This is my baby we’re talking about here.
I’ve raised him by myself since he was an infant, and the very thought of
losing him to a “war” that should have been over years ago really pisses me
off. The former Vice President, Dick
Cheney, made me want to reach through the television screen and slap him when
he accused our current president of “dithering” last week. What in the bloody hell was HIS
administration doing for seven years, if it wasn’t “dithering”? For shit’s
sake, folks; our mission over there was to wipe out a couple of thousand
scumbags who were behind the terrorist attack that killed 3000 of our people.
We had them cornered eight goddamn years ago; why are we still there? Oh, yeah; it’s because we stopped in the
middle, and started a war with another country not too far away; one that was a
pain in the ass, but which didn’t attack us at all. That’s not dithering? Roosevelt
and Truman beat the Nazis and the Japanese in half the time that it’s taken to
wipe out a small group of people who are apparently so lacking in weapons that
they had to use four of our airliners and box cutters as weapons when they got
here.